Saturday, February 7, 2009

Visiting the Browns NJ Feb 7 -9 '09

We decided it was time to pay Laura and Keyatta  and our two grand daughters in New Jersey a three day visit. We left in the wee hours of the morning, but it's still a twelve hour drive from our home in South Carolina, so by the time we arrived,  it was late afternoon.
I Bruce's son in law, Kenyatta was preparing a feast to welcome us including venison steak and goose that he had hunted himself.   Oooooh ! So goooood!
After dinner  we watched Kenyatta and Delaney working off the big meal.
The next day Bruce and I and Laura took the kids to a local playground
Macie really likes swinging; we all took turns pushing her.
She's such a happy baby
Delaney likes riding Clifford the Big Red Dog
And building snowmen with Grandma and Grandpa

and playing in the snow with her sister.
The next day we all went to Dog Beach in the Jersey Shore
It was freezing cold, but no one seemed to mind, and Niela was downright overjoyed.
Delaney did some shelling
And Macie went along for the ride.
By the time we got home we were all chilled to the bone, so Bruce and Delaney volunteered to make dome nice warm animal cookies for everyone.
Delaney took her cooking responsibilities very seriously
At least until it came time to frost the cookies, then she was all giggles and grins.
The next day Grandma CC had a chance to visit Delaney's preschool class, while Bruce took a nap in preparation for the long drive home. We'll miss you guys.  Hope we can all get together again soon.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Good Reads:Mornings on Horseback 1 '09


I have just finished reading Mornings on Horseback by David McCullough.  It’s a remarkable book about the youth of Theodore Roosevelt and the family and friends who shaped his character.  It is about 400 pages long plus another 100 + pages of prologue and Footnotes It gives a fascinating insight into the lifestyle and mores of wealthy Victorians.

It begins in a time before telephones and radios or TV.  People of means would spend their evening reading, and socializing with one another.  They were prolific letter writers, and were constantly dashing off pages to their friends and relatives about almost every positive detail of their lives.  Even children as young as five or six regularly wrote letters.  The tone of these letters is one of constant love and optimism.  People openly wrote of their affection for one another in long flowery passages which would seem infantile and gushy by today’s standards.   Nor is there ever a hint of any strong negative feelings the writer might be having.  They might, for example, express concern that someone was ill, but would never express their prolonged grief or despair over a loved one one’s death, or a relatives decline into alcoholism.  Nor would they ever mention negative happening like the loss of a fortune.  Life it seems was to be appreciated for the goodness and joy it brought.  Any other aspect one was simply supposed to put up and shut up about. 

The amazing thing is how many of these letters have been preserved.   (Most of the text for this book was drawn from letters written by the family to one another).   When one considers that a letter might be handed off to a passing stranger who would volunteer to take it to a town 70 miles away, or that it might take two to three months to be delivered if the recipient was traveling, it is amazing some of the letters ever reached their destination, much less were kept and preserved intact for us to read.   If I have learned anything from this book it is the power of the positive influence that family members can have on future generation if they take the time to communicate with them.


About eighteen years old Theodore Roosevelt (top left) with brother Elliott, sister Corinne and family friend Edith (who would later become his second wife).

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Why join a book club? 1 '09



 Last year I joined the Pawley’s Book Group.  About  30 women belong to the organization. We meet once a month in a members home to discuss a book that we have all read.  While I originally joined to help meet my 2008 resolution of becoming more socially established in South Carolina, it is definitely something I will continue to be involved in even once I am socially well established in my community.

For one thing a book club can be an excellent way to enjoy books more and challenge your mind,  They can also encourage you to read more, or to read books that you might not normally choose. In short, most people join a book club, or start their own, in order to have fun, make friends, stimulate the brain cells and meet like minded people! .  The books we read range from “who-done-it”s to biographies.  The group has a strong leaning towards books that open doors to other cultures and mores the enthusing discussions are always lively.  

So Far I’ve read:

·        Carol Smith’s Wild Swans which is a story of three generations of Chinese women whose lives span from the time of warlords, when women’s feet were still bound, through to the present. Their ordeal during the Cultural Revolution is particularly heart rending.
·        Ian Doig’s  The Whistling Season is a wistful tale of a time of  innocence and self reliance on the edge of the prairie. It generated a lively discussion about education as much of the novel revolved around a one room school house.
·        Harlan Coben’s Tell No One is a suspense thriller. With lots of twists and turns in the plot.  Not my favorite genre, but it was well written.
·        Kate Jacob’s The Friday night Knitting Club, is a tale of female friendship.  Think Steel Magnolias set in New York City, while the plot was predictable, the characters held up to scrutiny.
·        Greg Mortenson’s Three cups of Tea is a true story about a man on a mission to fund and build schools for girls in the remote regions of Pakistan. It gave us deep insights into the Muslim religion and a strong empathy for the daily hardship of life in Pakistan.  Of all of the books I have read this year, this one caused the most soul searching.
·        Debra Dean’s The Madonna’s of Leningrad is a historical novel set in the basement of Leningrad’s Art  Museum during Hitler’s siege the city in 1941.  The museum’s staff protects their National art treasure first by risking their lives in staying to ship the art to safety, then by building memory palaces in their minds to keep the art alive.  It was a haunting testimony to the human reverence of art.
·        I’ve just begun to read this months book , Morning’s on Horseback by David McCullough.  It is a biography of the youth of Teddy Roosevelt. 
·        Waiting to be read are Geraldine Brook’s March, Gail Tsukiyama’s Women of Silk, and Betty Smith’s A Tree Grows in Brooklyn.

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

New Year's Eve Party ''08 -'09

We celebrated New Year's Eve at the Pawleys Plantation Club House  with all of  our neighbors
Gail and Jim Dowling
The evening started with a fine gourmet meal
And continued dancing long after midnight to music of the 50's 60s and 70's provided by the popular local band 'Deez Guys"

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Golfing on Christmas Day 12 '08

CC and BJ
We spent Christmas Afternoon in a round of golf with our friend Jim And Becky Sullivan
Jim and Becky
BJ and Jim in the sandtrap
Since we are all just learning it meant that we spent a fair amount of time in sand traps and other hazards
Where we got scolded by the onlookers
Male Fox Squirrel did not approve of our out of bound shots
Becky searching for her ball
Or we wond up near one of the water hazards where we had to answer to
Smiley

Smiley lives in the retaining pond by the 18th fairway.
Beck BJ and Jim on 13th Green
Even so, it was a great way to spend the holiday

Merry Christmas Everyone 12 '08

 Bruce and Cece Wish you and your a Very Merry Christmas

Monday, December 22, 2008

Happy Chanukah to all our Friends and Family 12 '08

Tonight marks the beginning of the eight day celebration of Chanukah.

Bruce and I wish that all of you may be surrounded by love and family during this joyous season.
 In addition to lighting our own Menorah, Bruce and I  were blessed to see these Menorahs on display at Brookgreen Gardens this year.
We want to share their beauty with you

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

ITS - Bottle Tree 12 '08

Brookgreen Gardens has planted a Bottle Tree.
  "What's that?", you ask.  Its a southern holiday tradition.  Find an dead tree, cut  off all the think branches;  then back the  small branches to within 24 " of the trunk,  cover the ends of the branches with colorful bottles.
 ITS   (It's the South)

Monday, December 8, 2008

Brookgreen Gardens Night of a Thousand Candles 12 '08

The Archer
This is our second year to attend Brookgreen Gardens' "Night of a Thousand Candles"
Becky, Jim, and Bruce
This year we were joined by our friends Jim and Becky Sullivan.
Palm Garden Pond by Day
 Every Year, hundreds of volunteers  string lights and light s tragically place thousands of  candles  throughout the the entire garden
Turning an already stunningly beautiful  area
into a fairyland of sparking dancing light
Same Palm Garden Pond by candlelight.
And here's a different view of the Palm Garden with the South Carolina State emblem ( Palmetto Palm and Moon)

Some of the displays are beautiful

And some are a bit spooky
Winter Bird house Display
Their indoor floral displays are especially interesting
I's love to decorate our Carolina room with one of these themes
Winter Cardinal Display
Or have a Christmas tree made entirely of Poinsettias

Jim, Becky and Bruce at the Concert
The Concert featuring pianist Rocky
was top notch
Even if you have visited Brookgreen Gardens in the past, this event is not to be missed.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Fall in the Low Country 12 '08

I am really surprised at how much fall color we get in the Low Country.
Coming from a part of the world where we get none
this is truly a treat